We are all after something that makes the empty spaces in us make sense. There’s zero correlation between being the best talker and having the best ideas. The pursuit of excellence is gratifying and healthy, The pursuit of perfection is frustrating ,neurotic and a terrible waste of time. On One Level , Life Is Effervescent And Active. On Another Level It Is Absolutely Still. The Inner Stillness Nourishes The Outer Activity. One tends to tell lies, keep in disguise, avoid being social, just to stay away from interaction with others, such people become agoraphobic, and have social anxiety.
There comes a pause, for human strength will not endure to dance without cessation; and everyone must reach the point at length of absolute prostration. There is no soft pillow in this world like pure conscience. I often wonder how and why people become reticent, they are losing their hidden talents as life is becoming more and more easy with advent of new technological inventions. It is ironic both for psychological and physical soundness.
The question arise how and why this irony is prevailing, what are the remedies to withhold it. The mainspring is the curiosity of the people that abstain one from being social as everyone can’t bear to reveal his/ her privacy even in their daily activities, they do not want others to know anything about them. Just like the moon we all have a side we don’t show others. The other reason is that introverts are scared of being mocked and trolled, trending ways of trolling and torturing has sprouted the people’s tendency towards diffidence.
People now a days are turning to be introverts, since their potential is not exposed, their hidden talents are not framed out. Most people tend to stay away from being social and lose interest in interaction with the people around him. According to a report, 60% population is inclined to be introverts. Introverts have 70% concentration on listening, 20% thinking and 10% talking. It is often supposed to be related with austism but that is not the case . Austism spectrum disorder (ASD), refers to a broad range of conditions characterized by challenges with social skills, repetitive behaviors, speech and nonverbal communication. According to the Centers for Disease Control, austism affects an estimated 1 in 54 children in the United States today.
Unassertive people need to be so full of themselves that they feel they are without flaw. They can feel beautiful and imperfect at the same time. They might have a healthy relationship with their aesthetic insecurities. In spite of asserting to be flawed and incomplete, it’s hard to feel unnecessary and unwanted, it’s easy to believe that way at times, left out and on the other side, it’s hard to keep that faith alive, they are in dire need to try all the time.
Being introspective they feel like they are on track. Straight, smooth and static. They can even see the end, the goal, that’s how clear everything is. But then again they start thinking. Distant and far away, it’s difficult to be the one who abides,
Confused and lost, it’s reason that comes in mind, Torn apart and pushed aside, it’s need that brings them to the one who denies, Is it always those who needs to try?
If only we could give away solace and love with an open heart, pure intentions and with no strings attached, the world would be a happier place for many.
- The Guild Becoming Introvert - 02/08/2020
