Sexual Inequality Impacts Life

You may think initially that the writing aims to discuss certain gender inequalities prevalent against women.

No. It’s not about gender inequality. It’s about sexual inequalities that are natural. To be more precise, it may mean sexual identity but ‘sexual identity is a soft expression; on the other hand ‘sexual Inequality’ contains much more.

Women are born with specific sexual organs designed to perform specific functions. The same is the case with men. Women and men both have their sexual and reproductive roles and it’s ok to have these roles because people are born to perform on the stage of life, but here, there is a serious design problem.

Owing to their sexual roles and organs, one party is always at loss and the other is always at the free end. This becomes inequality.

Women cannot love; they cannot abuse men; they cannot commute without fear; they cannot make relationships without fear; they cannot lie about their virginity. And this is all that man CAN.

Menstruation makes women weak; pregnancy snatches life from them and the receptive position always keeps them at risk.

Social norms are secondary, physical realities are primary. If society attaches shame, honor, or any other absurdity to womanhood, it can be cured or managed. But no one can guarantee free sexual pleasure to women without any fear of one kind or the other.

Deprivation from free sexual pleasure is only one loss due to sexual Inequality. If we look at women’s life from their perspective we can find that this one inequality has set the deadly life of women to eternal damnation.

If women are weak, they are weak due to their sexual reality. The fear of getting an unrequired pregnancy engulfs the happy childhood of girl children. This pain of adolescence is even stronger than the one faced during childhood. The new, unpredicted arrival of menstruation alters the psyche of adolescent girls which takes quite some time to adjust to the previous routine. This new ‘arrival’ weakens women folk even more.

They are not like boys who can enjoy free sexual pleasure and still claim virginity. They have to keep their ‘virginity membrane’ safe until they are put in a social or religious contract with some male. They are not allowed to run or play such games as may cause the “golden membrane” to break which may create suspicions about virginity.

The sexual reality may make them emotionally and psychologically weak too. A life always under threat of pregnancy and loss of sacred holiness cannot stand confident against the species that has all types of freedom to “do” anything it desires.

This is almost impossible to alter natural sexual inequalities resulting in the eternal impossibility of empowering women. Though there are ways to utilize sexual weaknesses for social strength it is not easy for common women. So it’s a blessing to be born a man; that’s why, if asked, no man wants to be reborn as a woman while more than half of women folk want to have a new life as men.